Monday, May 28, 2012

Drum Roll......

I have not once questioned God's hand on our adoption process. Not once. BUT, time and time again He proves to be holding our hands and helping us through this journey.

Here is a snippet of the letter we wrote when we were granted a $4,000 matching grant from Lifesong:

We believe families need to have the monetary needs to care for another child once they are home; but the cost of adoption is overwhelming and too much for almost any family to bear alone. Our goal from the start was to break our funds in thirds: 1/3 from our personal funds, 1/3 through grants/loans, and 1/3 through fundraising/family & friends. Through God’s help we have already spent $33,996 on our two adoptions. We are expecting to have $11,000 more in expenses to get Addy home (visas, passports, travel fees, etc) and about $15,000 left for our Ethiopian adoption.

Will you please consider making a tax-deductible donation to help us pay the remaining $11,000 in adoption expenses to bring Addy home? (our family will continue to save each month for our ET child and believe we can pull the funds together on our own when that adoption becomes a reality).

Our goal date to receive donations was May 22nd (but Lifesong will continue to take donations for us until our children are home). On May 23 I received an email stating our total funds raised thus far. Being it was a $4,000 matching grant, we had really hoped to meet the $4,000.

BUT....

We didn't only meet our goal, it was exceeded. Not only was it exceeded, but it was perfectly planned. If you recall in our letter, we are expecting $11,000 in costs left to bring Addy home......


Our donations total was.....



$6,959



add that to the $4,000 matching grant......



$10,959!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!



AGAIN God has provided for us and shown us that He is with us. He called our family down this challenging, hard, long, expensive process and He is taking care of us to do the work He has called us to do.

Last week (the same day we got our total) Eli was in the bathroom chatting with me while I got ready for the day. He saw Bobby's wrist band lying on the counter…

"Mommy, what does that say."

"It says Adoption"

"Do you guys want to adopt Addy because she will be cute and make you laugh?"

"Well that will sure be fun, but we are really adopting because God wants us to and the Bible tells us to care for orphans."

"Mom, the word 'orphan' is not in the Bible."

"Well Eli, actually it is. It's in James, Isaiah, Deuteronomy, Psalms, Hosea and many more."

"What does the Bible say about orphans?”

“In a nutshell it tells us to care for orphans just as God cares for us.”

“Oh. Well, if it's in the Bible why doesn't everyone adopt?"


Good question, Eli.

I'm NOT saying I think all are called to adopt and adoption is for everyone. BUT, if you call yourself a God fearing, Christ loving, Bible reading person, you must know where God's heart lies concerning orphans and you must see the importance of Christians standing up to care for them.
IT IS OUR RESPONSIBLITY.

Why do I say all this?

The number one response I get from people about them not choosing to adopt is the
monetary concerns.

YES, the money is HUGE.

Yes, it's not easy.

BUT, our story is one amongst thousands in which God has provided to care for an orphaned child.

We fell into that "trap" when we were called to our concurrent adoption.

"God, there is NO WAY we can afford TWO adoptions right now. Its' just NOT POSSIBLE"
"I will be with you." is the response we heard over and over again.

Here we are just 4 months down the road and that funding is not stopping us. Our Addy will be home soon thanks to the support from so many. Some it was $20, some $50...for others it was $200, $500, $1,000 or $5,000. No matter what your contribution may have been, YOU are making a difference.

THANK YOU FROM THE BOTTOM OF OUR HEARTS.

Our hearts ache and I mean ACHE for the fatherless. We are going to do anything we can to make it our family's mission to care for children who otherwise may have no hope....

After all, our only hope is through Jesus. An orphaned child's only hope is through US, bringing them home and showing them the hope He has shown us.


We are aliens and strangers in your sight, as were all our forefathers. Our days on earth are like a shadow, without hope.         1 Ch 29:15

We continually remember before our God and Father your work produced by faith, your labor prompted by love, and your endurance inspired by hope in our Lord Jesus Christ.          1 Th 1:3

Love from our family to yours!

Monday, May 21, 2012

Summoning Princess Addy

I'm going to be honest and say we requested a baby GIRL when we were called to grow our family through adoption. Not that Ayla wasn't enough, but I grew up with two brothers and have ALWAYS longed for a sister. I still have panging jabs of jealousy now and then of my girlfriends who have sisters and the bond they share as adults. And so it was, for my darling Ayla, we prayed for a sister.


It still gives me the gibbers knowing in a few short months I'm going to be putting two boys AND two girls to bed. That I'll be dressing two boys AND two girls. That I'll be toting all four of them around with me everywhere (yes, I am THAT mom that brings her kids everywhere---sorry checker at Wal-Mart today...little do you know that soon I'll be coming through your line with FOUR whining, crying, wandering children).
When we first knew we were REALLY getting our second daughter, I was a little worried that Ayla would be jealous that her role as "head princess" would be shared.

Man was I wrong!



From the day we told Ayla she was going to be getting a sister, she has prayed and prayed for Addy to come quickly. Ayla is the one that is sure we ALWAYS get Addy something from the store and that Addy's things are well cared for. Ayla is the one that begged and begged to share her room with Addy when we were deciding how to arrange the rooms. Ayla is the one who prays fervently for her sister and is sure to tell EVERYONE that she has a sister on the way.


I got a good laugh when Ayla requested her 4th birthday to be a tea party for GIRLS ONLY. Not because she wanted a tea party...but the whole "girls only" part. Ayla plays with boys 90% of the time and loves her boys so much (you know, being the only girl in a group of boys). Not only did Ayla request a GIRLS tea party (she did allow her brothers to be the servers!!) but she loved every single second of it and made the comment, "soon I won't be the only sister and Addy can be part of my girls' club."
 


We were in Wal-Mart today and saw some cute shiny black boots on clearance (just Ayla's style). When I picked them up and told Ayla they were for Addy, she replied, "Oh yes, Addy will look BEAUTIFUL in those." Not one little hesitation that she was not getting them.
(p.s. they were on clearance for ONE DOLLAR---go grab a pair if you have a baby or toddler girl).



Every day we wait I get nervous that the anticipation will fade for Eli, Ayla, and Owen. Every day they amaze me with the amount of love and understanding they have. They L-O-V-E their sister and count her a part of the family as much as we do.
I cannot wait to have Addy home and to see her personality unfold and see how much she and Ayla are alike and different. I cannot wait to see my children love Addy IN PERSON and to see them interact with each other.


We are praying Addy will be home in July. It is a LONG shot, but we know our God can work miracles!

Here is the easy timeline from now until travel:

We had court on May 12th (ish)
We are currently waiting on written judgment (3-4 weeks from court)

After judgment we have a 30 day wait period and Addy's passports, birth certificate, etc will be processed (30 days minimum)
Embassy appointment (2-3 weeks)


Those are the time frames if everything went 100% smoothly-- on-time and no hiccups....which means the absolute soonest we could travel to bring Addy home is July 15.

BUT, it is not usually that smooth;)

There are typically document errors that need to be fixed and our case is not a priority on the DRC side:) They often take vacations, timelines are very lenient, and delays are often.


PLEASE, PLEASE, PLEASE join in praying for us. Addy needs your prayers for health and safety....we need your prayers that the remaining process will go smoothly and we will be able to travel in July or August.


Princess Addy, your presence is requested at the Williams home.

Friday, May 11, 2012

SUBMITTED TO COURT!!!

We received an email yesterday that our paperwork has been submitted to the court!! Now we are waiting the verbal and written judgment which should take 3-4 weeks and then our agency can start working on Addy's paperwork (passport, birth certificate, translation, etc) which generally takes around 30 days. 

Once those two steps are done we will be assigned our embassy appointment----WHEN WE TRAVEL TO BRING ADDY HOME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Thank you Lord!!! 

I got the email at almost MIDNIGHT last night.  RIGHT after my girlfriends left after our late night book discussion on 7:An Experimental Mutiny Against Excess.  Part of this week's discussion was on prayer and we discussed trying prayer pauses throughout the day.  One of the suggested prayer pauses is at midnight and we all agreed it would be hard to do as we are hardly ever up that late so we'd basically skip that prayer pause....except last night....I  JUST jumped into bed to start my talk with God and my phone buzzed that I had a new email. 

SO, last night I went to bed AFTER midnight and did my prayer pause with tears FLOWING...and I mean FLOWING down my cheeks. 

The midnight prayer pause is to advocate for others...the suffering, oppressed, abandoned, lonely.

I quickly texted a few of my friends that I received the email and I just KNOW sweet Addy was prayed for by many in that hour of the night!!!! 

 Psalm 119

145 I call with all my heart; answer me, Lord,
and I will obey your decrees.
146 I call out to you; save me
and I will keep your statutes.
147 I rise before dawn and cry for help;
I have put my hope in your word.
148 My eyes stay open through the watches of the night,
that I may meditate on your promises.
149 Hear my voice in accordance with your love;
preserve my life, Lord, according to your laws.
150 Those who devise wicked schemes are near,
but they are far from your law.
151 Yet you are near, Lord,
and all your commands are true.
152 Long ago I learned from your statutes
that you established them to last forever. 


A Loss for Words

We've been home from sunny (well, sunny for one day) California for 5 days now and I've been putting off writing some sort of reflection.  Not because I don't want to, but I'm truly at a loss for words.  I have no clue how to capture our experience.  
   The atmosphere. 
      The people. 
         The speakers. 
            The thousands of hearts for orphans. 
               The wonderful organizations.  
                  The music and time of worship.
                     The time with my hubby. 
                        And on and on.

Honestly, I'm at a loss.  So instead, I'm going to share some of my favorite quotes or points from the awesome speakers and let them do my thinking...

The Bible is clear about caring for orphans...AND it tells us to DO what is SAYS.
God will be blessed if you are a DOER.
James 1:27=private purity+public charity
--Dennis Rainey

The Gospel is focused on justice.  The Gospel is the reason WHY--our source of deliverance--which should be lived in the verb form.
We need to bring them (orphans) home and demonstrate the TRUTH of the Gospel.

--Crawford Loritts

How do we communicate the truth??
We must make grace TOUCHABLE (word became flesh).
Loving orphans is making the gospel visible.
--Jedd Medefind

The gospel moves us to declare it AND demonstrate it.
Caring for the broken and fatherless is the best way to display the gospel.
One cannot be walking too closely with Jesus without thinking about and wanting to reach out to the less fortunate.
--Jason Kovacs

How can we be so casual about this (orphan care) if this is true religion (James 1:27).
A lot of our lives just don't make sense with the scriptures. 
If you believe the Bible then how can you live the way you are? (Mat 25:40)
--Francis Chan

Ask yourself, "Who will take care of my children when I die." 
You wouldn't want "orphanage" to be your answer.  You'd want a mom and dad that would love them.

Home+Church=answer to orphan needs
  • We cannot just help orphanages and give the children things....but must unite the children with LIFELONG FAMILIES
  • We cannot just educate and medicate....but CURE
  • We cannot just find a shelter for them...but a HOME
  • Our goal must not be to work on the crisis but to END the crisis
    • There are 168 million orphans and 2.4 billion Christians....YOU DO THE MATH
--Rick and Kay Warren

All those notes alone are too much to take in and wrap your mind around.  Then add in all the breakout sessions we attended (multicultural family, orphan ministry, missional living, etc), the hundreds of booths of organizations with ministries toward orphan care, the SUPERB music/worship, and the insight from all the great families we met. 
Summit
was
A-M-A-Z-I-N-G 

I've said it before and I'll say it a million times more....when we started this journey we had no clue how much God would reveal to us.  We had no clue how much our lives would be changed.  We are not adopting or doing foster care to get a pat on the back.  We are not doing it to be part of a "fad."  We are doing it to do what God told us to do and to do what HE does for US. 

What's a post without a few photos?!?!?
 

Wednesday, May 2, 2012

Addy Update!!!

Bobby and I arrived in cool CA today!! We left Bismarck at 5am and got here by 10am.  After a quick drive to Lake Forest we grabbed a quick lunch, stopped at a few shops and YUMMY Yougurtland then headed to check in to our hotel...the first thing we did was turn on the heat--yes us North Dakotans visiting CA in May:)

Then we plopped on the bed for a quick snooze and I woke up to my phone vibrating a new email....PHOTOS OF OUR SWEET AFRICAN PRINCESS!!!!!!!!!




It gives this mommy and daddy great comfort to see that cute face...and GROWING girl!! We can tell she is well cared for and she looks so content and comfy!

Thank you to my dear friends who sent me messages the last two days as I have been struggling with the wait! Your support means so much and I've been refreshed by you all and God giving me a sigh of relief seeing her updated photos!!!!

Psalm 130
I wait for the Lord, my soul waits, and in His word I put my hope. My soul waits for the Lord more than watchman wait for the morning....put your hope in the Lord's unfailing love and with Him is full redemption.

Our Addy Rose, we love you so much and will wait for God's gift of bringing you home...but continue to pray fervently that we have you in our arms SOON!

Monday, April 30, 2012

Getting By...

I told myself a few weeks ago the next time I posted would be me posting new pictures of our sweet Addy....nope.

This waiting game is TOUGH.  Most days I get by just fine with our day to day happenings and knowing we will have Addy home soon...but today has been hard...actually one of the toughest days yet.  I've found myself biting my lips countless times to kick back the tears.  We received our referral 6.5 weeks ago...and the photo we have was probably taken a couple weeks before we received her info...that means 2 months of infant life we are missing out on completely--like it's not enough that all we have is a photo!!  How big is she now?  Is she growing much?  What does her sweet face look like (we've only seen a side profile)?  Is she healthy?  (and those are just the questions about her physical appearance!).

Today I went through clothes and washed and put away all the 6-12 month baby girl clothes!!!  It was soooo emotional for me!!  Remembering Ayla wearing them and many great memories...plus the added emotions of imagining Addy wearing them!  Ayla was right by my side the entire time and was just squealing with delight!  Unfortunately last summer when we had our fundraising garage sale I got ride of 90% of our baby girl clothes under 12 months (at that time we were preparing for our Ethiopian blessing and knew they would be at least 12 months when coming home).

Anyway...a few other updates from the past week!

Some of my girlfriends and I are doing an after-bed-time discussion on 7: An Experimental Mutiny Against Excess.  Don't read it.  That is, unless you want to really discover yourself, your idols, where you time/money is going, and how the luxuries of this world cripple our faith.  It's an eye-opener.  I've thoroughly enjoyed (enjoyed doesn't quite fit this one) reading it with these wonderful ladies....but this week we decided to challenge each other.  For two weeks I am watching NO TV and only spending 30 mins on the computer a day--WHILE the kids are sleeping or resting--no wasting my time with my kiddos for stalking people on FB or lingering around adoption blogs. The 30 minutes is HARD when this mommy feels so alone today.   

(If there are typos in this post, blame the experiment--my fingers are going as fast as they can!)

(more of the 7 experience on a later date!)

We haven't officially broken ground, but we did get some dirt last week!  Our site work (getting the hill ready for a house) will be done this week while we're in CA and then next week or so we'll get the excavation going!!!!!!  The kids LOVE LOVE LOVE it out in the country and I CANNOT WAIT to have our family grow out there!!! 


Last weekend I spent AN ENTIRE day moving the kids' rooms around.  Ayla used to have the green room (which so cutely matched her comforter and even had white trim to match her furniture).  With the addition of Addy we had to decide what to do with the rooms before our house will be done...about 9 months from now.  The only solution was to move Eli and Owen to the small room and put Ayla and Addy in the larger room. 

It's taking all I've got to not paint the rooms, the trim and the crib!!  BUT (again through the messed up 7 book) I've realized some of MY priorities in life just shouldn't be priorities...Ayla and Addy can have two colors of furniture in their plain tan room (and ugly brown trim) AND the boys' green walls don't TOTALLY clash.  I will be JUST FINE. 


Tomorrow night Bobby and I leave for the Summit VIII conference in Orange County, CA!!  We are SUPER excited about the conference...Steven Curtis Chapman, Frances Chan, Dennis/Barbara Rainey, Rick/Kay Warren and MUCH MORE!  We look forward to connecting with other adoptive parents and ministry leaders and are excited to have some time together!  The last trip we took alone outside of Dickinson was in December 2010...it'll be nice!

Please continue to pray for Addy (and us).  We're waiting right now to hear about our court date and judgment.  It's estimated that once we get our judgment we'll travel about 8 weeks later!  We could have Addy in our arms as soon as JULY!!!!!!!!!

(and yes, I'm praying we get an updated photo SOON--the unknowns are killing me and to just see how much she's grown would make this mommy sooooooo happy!).

Friday, April 20, 2012

Grandma Lollipop

A few months back I was browsing books on my Kindle and saw the story Grandpa Green.  The cover and description captivated me and I quickly added it to my 'wish list.'  Today at the North Dakota Reading Conference, the book was on a table for giveaway--so of course I quickly scooped it up;)

After work I got home to three rambunctious children that really wanted to go to Great Grandma Gayda's house.  Now, I'm being honest when I say I LOVE my grandma.  But tonight, I didn't feel like going to Grandma's house.  She's exhausting at times and a short trip is never an option. 

I sighed, shrugged my shoulders, and decided we'd head.

Wow was I glad we did.  My grandma's house is comfort to me.  There's something about the smell right when you walk in the door---I swear if you blindfolded me and brought me there, I'd know exactly where I was.  She loves to have company and is always eagerly waiting at the door (which then means a big smile and her side hug where she pulls you real tight). Her cooking and baking...well there aren't even words to describe them. 

Tonight, she made my favorite--Borscht soup (this time it was a coincidence...but if you know my grandma, she has a niche for ALWAYS making everyone's favorite). 

It wasn't her usually set table, homemade rolls (or kolaches), or a yummy dessert waiting for us to dig into.  It was plain and simple: borscht and crackers....and perfect. 

We had such fun conversation laughing at my kiddos and making small talk.  As I cleared the table, she fed the kids some Easter candy she had--laughing at Owen begging for more, more more.  And as soon as we were through eating, she showed the kids some new toys she had bought for her house.  We played for the next hour--you know, quality grandma and grandchildren play. 

After the slobbery kisses and the long goodbye, we headed home for a bedtime story-- Grandpa Green that I had picked up today.

We sat on the edge of the bed reading this wonderfully crafted story of a family's legacy and love.  Grandpa Green doesn't remember everything like he used to, but he has retold his life in his topiary garden.  The story shows his great grandson walking through the garden and telling his Grandpa Green's life story.  (here's a peek)
 
The story was a perfect ending to a perfect evening.  So my grandma may be getting older, and is sometimes exhausting.  So she may feed my children WAY more sugar than I would ever imagine giving them.  So her entertaining isn't quite what it used to be....but the love she radiates is nothing less than extra-ordinary. 

Oh how much I cherish the memories I hold with her...and the memories my children are able to create with her.  My "Grandma Lollipop"--as my children call her--has handed down a legacy of love, cooking, and family that I hope to pass on.

(P.S....Grandma Lollipop NEVER, EVER, EVER fails to ask about Addy and if she buys something for the grandkids, Addy's always included.  I can't wait to bring Addy home to a family that loves and adores her!)

Love from our family to yours!

Monday, April 16, 2012

Everyone Needs Compassion

Com×pas×sion:
noun
1. a feeling of deep sympathy and sorrow for another who is stricken by misfortune, accompanied by a strong desire to alleviate the suffering.
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Saturday morning I woke up to head to coffee with a dear friend, Staci. After chatting for three hours about our families, ambitions, callings, etc, I headed home to help Bobby build some shelving in our garage (a project quite overdo!).

Shortly after lunch I was in trying to get the kids down for a nap when Bobby yelled in to me. Frustrated that I had to get up when Owen was finally falling asleep (couldn't sleep with the saws and hammering in the garage), I let out a big sigh and went to see what was needed.

Then I got an earful....


"A lady was just walking by with her puppy. After saying "hello" to her, conversation started and I could tell something was wrong. We got to talking and it ends up she is currently staying at the women's shelter. She and her son just rolled into town a few days ago looking for work. She has a camper but its electricity, lights, etc aren't working so she is staying at the shelter. Her boy recently bought an 8 week old puppy and the dog is living in the camper as the shelter doesn't allow dogs. I told her I'd talk to you but maybe we'd care for their dog."


I wish you could have seen my reaction. It was not THAT bad, but I was annoyed already with our screaming child who was refusing a nap and then Bobby rambles this story off!?!??! I fired back with a million questions:"What are we going to do with a puppy?"
"What if the kids fall in love with the dog and then we have to give it back?"
"We don't know anything about them" 
"Why did she come out here looking for work?--what's their background?"
And the list went on....

Bobby simply looked at me and replied, "Courtney we have been talking for months now about living a more compassionate life. We have committed to helping others in need whether they are orphans, widows, or strangers. There is a reason why she walked by while we were working outside and why she opened up to me. We can do a simple job of watching a dog for a few days (or weeks) if that means helping someone in distress. This lady needs help."
"And because you made every effort to express the Father's love, even the smallest deeds you did for the least of these will count greatly for all eternity."
 SLAP. I think that was the first time Bobby "slapped" me in the face.

Just that morning at coffee Staci and I were talking about compassion. About how that is our ultimate goal: to teach our children about Jesus and to teach them to live lives FULL of compassion.

A few minutes later "P"--as I'll call her--came back with Ann (the 8 week old springer spaniel that her son named after the coon dog in "Where the Red Fern Grows"). She was obviously distraught and overly thankful that we were going to take care of the dog. She asked if I'd walk her back to her camper to get the dog food.

On our walk I learned so much about “P” and her background. She has lived a hard, hard life....living out of her car for the past ___ years while she worked at Wal-Mart overnight. Her son has some issues and she has no clue what the future holds for either of them. Eli walked with us taking it all in...

We took Ann, ran and got her a kennel and a few treats from Wal-Mart, and settled in for the evening.


Sunday morning "P" arrived outside our house at 9:10 sharp ready to head to church with us. After church we took her to lunch and tried helping her sort out what her future may hold. She stopped by the garage to say "good night." The kids all ran to greet her and when she left Owen reached his hands out and said, "Hug????" 

When she left Eli said, “Mom, when we build our new house maybe we can give ‘P’ our house so she isn’t homeless anymore.”
"The more we become the hands, the feet, and the love of Jesus, the more joy we will find."

We don't know how we can support her, or what she will be doing today, tomorrow, or weeks from now. BUT, we do know this opportunity for showing her compassion (even in the littlest ways) means the world to her.
 "It's obvious that one of the reasons God calls His people to reach out to the defenseless is because they are the most needy. Without our help, they will die early deaths, they will be swept into lives of poverty, they will make bad decisions and end up in jail. We can show them they have a chance to make it in life."
Gus (our 6 year old choc lab) isn't too fond of Ann....chasing after him, nipping at his tail, and biting his ears. BUT, he is warming up--a bit!
AND, the kids are in love (except for the puppiness in her that means chewing on toys, biting on toes, and jumping up over and over again).

How appropriate it was that we did our final study of "Fields of the Fatherless" with our James 1:27 ministry yesterday. All the quotes in this post came from Tom Davis in the chapters we studied this week.

One final thought...

"Many times we sit on our hands and wait for someone who needs help to come knocking on our door...most of His opportunities to care and heal occurred because He was out waking among them."
DOUBLE SLAP

Ahh, may I start to walk among them, LOOKING for ways in which I can reach out and help someone who is less fortunate (and ESPECIALLY not ignore them when they come knocking at my door).

Wednesday, April 11, 2012

MATCHING GRANT FROM LIFESONG!

About a year ago we began the journey of adoption.  When we started this journey we were requesting 1 or 2 children from Ethiopia. We took a few months to get our paperwork compiled, did some fundraising, and submitted our paperwork.  Shortly after our dossier was turned in, the adoption process for Ethiopia slowed down tremendously.

After the slowdown, we both felt God pushing us to do something NOW.  We looked into different areas of helping orphans (foster care, a missions trip, helping others, etc).  We were not expecting God to put a little inkling in our hearts to look into a concurrent adoption (an adoption pursued at the same time as our Ethiopian one).  From the start we knew we’d either adopt siblings or adopt two children at some point…we never considered the fact that could mean another adoption BEFORE our Ethiopian adoption.  But, here we are, following His call and now adopting from the DRC (Congo) too.  
March 15, we received a referral of our sweet baby girl, Addy Rose, who is currently living in an orphanage in the Congo.  Knowing where she is and what brought her there is extremely tough on us…but knowing that we will have the rest of our lives with her as our daughter is completely uplifting!! We are estimating we’ll travel to bring her home in Sep/Oct.
The biggest challenge for us is not opening our hearts and home to more children, but in finding the finances to make this happen. An international adoption for one child costs $25,000-$40,000…which means our two adoptions together are going to cost around $60K.

We believe families need to have the monetary needs to care for another child once they are home; but the cost of adoption is overwhelming and too much for almost any family to bear alone.   Our goal from the start was to break our funds in thirds: 1/3 from our personal funds, 1/3 through grants/loans, and 1/3 through fundraising/family & friends.  Through God’s help we have already spent $33,996 on our two adoptions.  We are expecting to have $11,000 more in expenses to get Addy home (visas, passports, travel fees, etc) and about $15,000 left for our Ethiopian adoption.  

We appreciate you all very much and would like you to pray & consider helping us in our adoption. There are two ways you can help:

1. Prayer – Please pray God would tenderly care for Addy.  We are continually in prayer for her safety, health, and comfort. Also pray for our family as we prepare to bring her home and the changes it will entail for our family.  Pray for us to keep calm hearts while we are trying to be patient for the next five-six months.

2. Financial support - Will you please consider making a tax-deductible donation to help us pay the remaining $11,000 in adoption expenses to bring Addy home?  (our family will continue to save each month for our ET child and believe we can pull the funds together on our own when that adoption becomes a reality).

Lifesong (www.lifesongfororphans.org) has graciously given us a Matching Grant of $4,000 to help pay the “ransom” to bring Addy home –how great is that?!?!?! 

If you would like to be a part of bringing Addy home to our family, you can send your tax-deductible gift between now and May 22nd to the address below. Lifesong is a trusted organization administering the funds on Addy’s behalf, and 100% of the funds received for our family will go toward bringing her home (AND will be matched up to $4,000!).

Please make checks payable to Lifesong for Orphans and to indicate Williams/#2637 adoption in the memo section.
Mail check to:
Lifesong for Orphans
Attn: Williams#2637
PO Box 40
Gridley, IL 61744

You may also pay online (through paypal):
1. Click on the Donate button on the right side of our blog (Donate Via Lifesong). 
2. All funds will be matched dollar for dollar ($25 turns ito $50 for us!!!!)



Thank you,
Bobby, Courtney , Eli, Ayla, Owen, Addy, and #7 Williams
   
Hosea 14:3 In you the orphan finds mercy!